"And let's be clear, help can include advice." The link should take you to the 4:52 mark; if it doesn't work, click ahead to that point.
One of the viewers of the channel reminded me of this video from two years ago (!) that foreshadows my current crisis.
@7:00 "I now feel… and I know that not a single person out of my 10,000 subscribers is going to do anything for me, not even on the level of advice, not even on the level of care and concern."